Leaving an Emotionally and Psychologically Abusive Partner - 5 Tips For Moving Out

If you are living with an emotionally and psychologically abusive person and are considering leaving the relationship and moving out, there are some important matters to consider.

First off, if there is ANY risk in your mind that the situation could turn physically violent, please consult with a counselor or other professional trained in domestic violence before attempting to leave an abuser.

The highest risk for homicides and attempted homicides of women in abusive relationships occurs when the victim is leaving, and sometimes with little warning.

If you feel physically safe but are not so sure about other repercussions, be sure you do some preparatory work in advance. Here are 5 tips for preparing to move out.

1. Make sure your finances are in order. Make copies or obtain originals of all financial and related documents, such as tax returns, W-2's, insurance policies, bank statements, investment statements, loan information, car titles, marriage licenses, property appraisals, current paycheck stubs, and the like. Open your own bank account and get your own credit card. Have an emergency stash of cash in your account…

2. Remove passports and social security cards for you and your children from the home. Also, take away any sentimental or highly valued objects and entrust these to a close friend or family member for safekeeping. Have the mindset that anything you leave in the home, you may not get back.

3. Confide in a few, trusted friends or family so that they know your plan and can support you through it.

4. Change all passwords to email accounts, bank accounts, etc. Do not provide a key to your new home to your partner, and if your partner has a copy of your car key, consider changing the locks on your car doors.

5. Make sure that you have your legal bases covered. Consult with an attorney. You do not want to make a move that could hurt your standing in terms of your claim to property or custody issues later on.

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Shannon Cook is a personal growth and relationship expert who has written a number of informative articles and ebooks on the topic of toxic relationships and holistic personal growth, including physical, emotional and relationship health.